Most of us have experienced failure at some point in our lives – lost a job we wanted, lost a promotion, lost a contract or grant. I recently read an article that put a different spin on failure – learning from the experience. After enduring the disappointment, what comes next? With a mindset to associate failure with improvement and growth, this can be a springboard to future success.
1.Failure can make us like a ‘scientist’ – like the research chemist that tries again and again, to achieve his chemical theory:
– What factors went into the outcome?
– Who do I know who could give me insight and advice on these factors?
– Should I return to the decision maker for some honest feedback?
– If so, what is my behavior like – appreciative, sincere, not defensive?
- Failure demands reflection. The point is to examine the failure to determine if the cause might be part of our own weaknesses. Hopefully we can acknowledge what weaknesses may be holding us back – job assessments or performance reviews. But don’t let this knowledge shield you from the strengths for which you are already recognized. Those strengths are what took you to the present state and will be needed as you go forward.
3.Failure must generate a ‘can-do’ attitude. Albert Einstein was famous for saying, “a person who never made a mistake never tried anything new”. The reaction to failure is a test of character. A winner is a loser who just tries one more time.
Author: Adrianne Geiger DuMond. Executive Coaches of Orange County, www.ECofOC.org